Restaurants · JT-002 · Seating
Do You Seat Yourself in Japanese Restaurants?
How to decide whether to wait, sit, buy a ticket, write your name, or speak to staff at the entrance.
Short Answer
Do not assume self-seating. Read the entrance: staff-led, waiting list, ticket machine, counter-only, or clear self-seat cue.
First move
Do this before solving the whole situation
Stop at the entrance edge and let the entrance cue answer before choosing a seat.
If you are here now
Make the next move clear
- Stop here
- At the waiting edge or beside the entrance sign, leaving the doorway clear.
- Look for
- host stand, waiting list, ticket machine, staff gesture, empty counter seat, or self-seat sign
- Say this
- Sumimasen. Futari desu.
- Avoid
- Do not take a seat just because one is empty if staff or a list is controlling the room.
Choose The Nearby Fix
Useful Phrases
Main ask
Sumimasen. Futari desu.
Use after moving aside. Point to the ticket, sign, bag, tray, booking, or screen if that makes the question clearer.
Confirm
Kore de daijobu desu ka?
Use when you can point to the thing you plan to do and need a simple yes/no confirmation.
What To Do
- Stop at the entrance edge and let the entrance cue answer before choosing a seat.
- Read the local cue before deciding: host stand, waiting list, ticket machine, staff gesture, empty counter seat, or self-seat sign
- Follow the strongest entrance cue: staff, list, ticket machine, or self-seat sign.
- If the cue is still unclear, ask with: Sumimasen. Futari desu.
- After the cue is clear, either wait, sit where directed, buy a ticket, or leave cleanly.
Nearby Fixes To Check
- Entrance sign
- Waiting list
- Ticket machine
- Staff at counter
- Queue line
Before You Move On
- Is there a list or machine before the seats?
- Has staff made eye contact or gestured?
- Are you blocking new arrivals?
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